<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Understandably: Life Story Magic]]></title><description><![CDATA[Life Story Magic is abiout unforgettable true stories—fascinating moments, unexpected twists, and inspiring lives you’ve never heard of. From quiet heroes to wild coincidences, each edition reminds us how powerful a single life story can be. It’s also your gateway to preserving your own legacy—because the most magical story might be yours.]]></description><link>https://www.understandably.com/s/life-story-magic</link><image><url>https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Ge-3!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F23e9bfa6-8200-411d-b085-2b4a68f4d001_256x256.png</url><title>Understandably: Life Story Magic</title><link>https://www.understandably.com/s/life-story-magic</link></image><generator>Substack</generator><lastBuildDate>Mon, 20 Apr 2026 09:59:47 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.understandably.com/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><copyright><![CDATA[Much Better Media LLC]]></copyright><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><webMaster><![CDATA[bill@understandably.com]]></webMaster><itunes:owner><itunes:email><![CDATA[bill@understandably.com]]></itunes:email><itunes:name><![CDATA[Bill Murphy Jr.]]></itunes:name></itunes:owner><itunes:author><![CDATA[Bill Murphy Jr.]]></itunes:author><googleplay:owner><![CDATA[bill@understandably.com]]></googleplay:owner><googleplay:email><![CDATA[bill@understandably.com]]></googleplay:email><googleplay:author><![CDATA[Bill Murphy Jr.]]></googleplay:author><itunes:block><![CDATA[Yes]]></itunes:block><item><title><![CDATA[Stories matter]]></title><description><![CDATA[Edward Kennedy &#8212; not that Edward Kennedy &#8212; and a moment in history.]]></description><link>https://www.understandably.com/p/stories-matter</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.understandably.com/p/stories-matter</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Bill Murphy Jr.]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 15 Apr 2026 11:01:32 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!J_ix!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F116a89b3-0a2e-493f-a9dc-ccc21090cc73_2434x1402.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>Note: I originally shared this story five years ago. <a href="https://lifestorymagic.com">Life Story Magic</a> didn't exist yet &#8212; the technology to do it efficiently wasn't there. But reading this again now, I can see I was already thinking about exactly this problem.</em></p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!J_ix!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F116a89b3-0a2e-493f-a9dc-ccc21090cc73_2434x1402.png" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!J_ix!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F116a89b3-0a2e-493f-a9dc-ccc21090cc73_2434x1402.png 424w, 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class="sizing-normal" alt="Newspaper from 1945 showing the surrender of Germany in World War II." title="Newspaper from 1945 showing the surrender of Germany in World War II." srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!J_ix!,w_424,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F116a89b3-0a2e-493f-a9dc-ccc21090cc73_2434x1402.png 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!J_ix!,w_848,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F116a89b3-0a2e-493f-a9dc-ccc21090cc73_2434x1402.png 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!J_ix!,w_1272,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F116a89b3-0a2e-493f-a9dc-ccc21090cc73_2434x1402.png 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!J_ix!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F116a89b3-0a2e-493f-a9dc-ccc21090cc73_2434x1402.png 1456w" sizes="100vw" fetchpriority="high"></picture><div class="image-link-expand"><div class="pencraft pc-display-flex pc-gap-8 pc-reset"><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container restack-image"><svg role="img" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 20 20" fill="none" stroke-width="1.5" stroke="var(--color-fg-primary)" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg"><g><title></title><path d="M2.53001 7.81595C3.49179 4.73911 6.43281 2.5 9.91173 2.5C13.1684 2.5 15.9537 4.46214 17.0852 7.23684L17.6179 8.67647M17.6179 8.67647L18.5002 4.26471M17.6179 8.67647L13.6473 6.91176M17.4995 12.1841C16.5378 15.2609 13.5967 17.5 10.1178 17.5C6.86118 17.5 4.07589 15.5379 2.94432 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Europe during World War II, and who was the first reporter to break the story of the German surrender &#8212; beating the competition by a full day.</p><p>Only, Kennedy wasn&#8217;t praised for his big scoop; he was pilloried.</p><p>Here&#8217;s what happened. The German military surrendered to the Allies on May 7, 1945 at 2:41 a.m., in a schoolhouse in Reims, France, which was part of Eisenhower&#8217;s headquarters.</p><p>Kennedy was there, along with a dozen other reporters. They&#8217;d been allowed to witness the event on one condition: they had to hold the story for a few hours, so the Allies could make their own official announcement first.</p><p>As Kennedy told the tale, the U.S. war censors later changed the rules, ordering reporters to withhold the news for 36 more hours, so the Allies could stage a second surrender ceremony in Berlin on May 8.</p><p>The point was to ignore the first ceremony at the school house, and make the Soviets&#8217; role more prominent.</p><p>The reporters chafed at this. But then, the Allies ordered German radio to announce the end of the war to the German people. Kennedy told military censors that he now considered his obligation to hold the news fulfilled.</p><p>&#8220;Do as you please,&#8221; the chief censor told him. Kennedy managed to call London, and he dictated a short story to his AP coworkers.</p><p>By the next morning, May 8, Kennedy&#8217;s article was on the front page of every newspaper in America. The free world celebrated, but the weight of the U.S. government came crashing down on him.</p><p>He was banned from Europe and fired by the AP. Later, the military investigated and vindicated him, but it was too late for his career.</p><p>This article in <em>The Atlantic </em>was his attempt a few years later to give his side of the story.</p><div><hr></div><p>I had never heard of any of this until I read that 1948 article. I was a bit surprised, because I&#8217;ve always been interested in both World War II history, and the history of the media. Heck, I was a reporter for <em>Stars &amp; Stripes</em> for a while.</p><p>But no matter what side of this 81-year-old debate you might come down on, what really pulled me in was just the fact that Kennedy got the chance to tell his story.</p><p>I believe almost everyone has at least one really interesting story to tell. But, most people never get the chance to tell it.</p><p>It&#8217;s quite sad, if I let myself think about it. Either time passes before they get the chance, or they don&#8217;t have the confidence in their storytelling or writing ability, or they just don&#8217;t think anyone would be interested.</p><p>But later, their loved ones, at least, really do wish they&#8217;d shared.</p><p>I&#8217;m a member of a parenting Facebook group, for example, and a mom was asking if people thought she should come clean to her college-aged children about her wilder days before she&#8217;d had them.</p><p>One woman replied with an enthusiastic: <em>Yes! Tell them everything!</em></p><p>She explained that her mother is deceased, and she finds herself craving every piece of information about her, good or bad, momentous or mundane. <em>She would have wanted to know</em>.</p><div><hr></div><p>Anyway, this is sort of what happened with Kennedy. He wrote the article for <em>The Atlantic</em>, then moved to California and ran some smaller newspapers. He died in 1963, at age 58, when he was hit by a car.</p><p>But later, it was his daughter, who was then just 16 when he died, who took up his cause.</p><p>She followed in her late father&#8217;s footsteps and become a reporter; even worked for the AP for several years. As I gather, she then went to business school and did some other things&#8212;but she also got an academic press to publish her father&#8217;s memoir in 2012.</p><p>That led the then-current head of the Associated Press to write an introduction, apologizing for how his organization had treated Edward Kennedy all those years before.</p><p>Maybe I&#8217;m sentimental, but I&#8217;m sitting here on the couch in my living room in New Jersey, putting the final touches on this newsletter.</p><p>And I keep thinking that a man who died years before I was born basically reached up from the grave, and led me to read and share his forgotten account once again.</p><p>Nobody&#8217;s going to live forever. But, it seems to me that people who share their stories like this at least have a fighting chance to be remembered.</p><p><em>I&#8217;ve now done <a href="https://lifestorymagic.com">dozens of these interviews myself</a>. And I&#8217;ll tell you &#8212; the families who receive them are always grateful. Not just for the stories they knew, but for the ones they never would have heard otherwise.</em></p><p><em>Next week I&#8217;ll be sharing something special ahead of Mother&#8217;s Day. Stay tuned.</em></p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://www.understandably.com/p/stories-matter?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=email&utm_content=share&action=share&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Share&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://www.understandably.com/p/stories-matter?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=email&utm_content=share&action=share"><span>Share</span></a></p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://www.understandably.com/p/stories-matter/comments&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Leave a comment&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://www.understandably.com/p/stories-matter/comments"><span>Leave a comment</span></a></p><div><hr></div><h2>Other things worth knowing &#8230; </h2><ul><li><p><strong><a href="https://nz.news.yahoo.com/french-woman-86-held-ice-113716491.html">BBC</a>:</strong> An 86-year-old French woman whose American husband died in January before her green card application was completed is being detained by ICE in Louisiana. The woman had moved to the U.S. last year after rekindling a 1960s romance; she and her husband had first met during the 1960s, when he was a soldier stationed in Europe, and she a secretary. They had each married, had children, and been widowed before beginning a relationship in 2022. &#8220;They handcuffed her hands and feet like she was a dangerous criminal,&#8221; her son told a French news outlet.</p></li><li><p><strong><a href="https://kffhealthnews.org/news/article/immigrants-ice-arrests-family-separation-children-foster-care/">KFF Health News</a>:</strong> As immigration authorities carry out what President Trump has promised will be the largest mass deportation operation in U.S. history, several states are passing laws to keep children out of foster care when their detained parents have no family or friends available to take temporary custody of them. The record 73,000 people in detention in January represents an 84% increase compared with one year before; parents of 11,000 children who are U.S. citizens were detained from the beginning of Trump&#8217;s term through August.</p></li><li><p><strong><a href="https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/world/2026/04/14/mark-carney-majority-government-canada-elections/89602730007/">USA Today</a>:</strong> Canadian Prime Minister Mark Carney has secured a parliamentary majority for his Liberal government, a win he has said will help him deal more effectively with the trade war started by President Trump. It also probably means Carney, who took office with no political experience and has earned global praise for his efforts to band middle-power nations together, won&#8217;t have to worry about an election for years.</p></li><li><p><strong><a href="https://www.cnbc.com/2026/04/14/united-airlines-american-airlines-merger-report.html">CNBC</a>:</strong> United Airlines CEO Scott Kirby reportedly floated the idea of a potential tie-up with rival American Airlines to the Trump administration earlier this year, a suggestion that if acted upon, would create the world&#8217;s largest airline. &#8220;This would be the biggest of all time. I can&#8217;t even see the slightest chance that a court would allow it,&#8221; said George Hay, a law professor at Cornell University.</p></li><li><p><strong><a href="https://www.npr.org/2026/04/13/nx-s1-5777582/many-private-colleges-at-risk-of-closing">NPR</a>:</strong> More than a quarter of private colleges are at risk of closing: 442 of the nation&#8217;s 1,700 private, nonprofit four-year colleges and universities, with a combined 670,000 students, are at risk of closing or having to merge within the next 10 years.</p></li><li><p><strong><a href="https://archive.is/BmFHu#selection-3361.3-3361.164">Financial Times</a>:</strong> Consumer AI chatbots falter when used to make medical diagnoses, particularly when faced with incomplete information, according to new research highlighting the risks of relying on them as digital doctors. A study found that failure rates exceeded 80% for all models when they needed to perform so-called differential diagnosis &#8212; when full patient information was lacking.</p></li><li><p><strong><a href="https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2026/apr/14/states-medicaid-coverage-glp-1">The Guardian</a>:</strong> Faced with high demand for GLP-1 drugs, some cities and states that previously covered the cost of weight-loss medication for low-income residents and public employees have now started to restrict or eliminate coverage. Some legislators and healthcare providers argue that dropping coverage might provide short-term relief for governments but will ultimately harm Medicaid recipients&#8217; health, while cities and states will then have to pay for more health problems related to obesity.</p></li></ul><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://www.understandably.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe now&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://www.understandably.com/subscribe?"><span>Subscribe now</span></a></p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://www.understandably.com/p/stories-matter?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=email&utm_content=share&action=share&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Share&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://www.understandably.com/p/stories-matter?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=email&utm_content=share&action=share"><span>Share</span></a></p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://www.understandably.com/p/stories-matter/comments&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Leave a comment&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://www.understandably.com/p/stories-matter/comments"><span>Leave a comment</span></a></p><div><hr></div><p>Thanks for reading. See you in the comments.</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Well, that was fast!]]></title><description><![CDATA[Very quick update ...]]></description><link>https://www.understandably.com/p/well-that-was-fast</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.understandably.com/p/well-that-was-fast</guid><pubDate>Fri, 05 Dec 2025 15:28:52 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Ge-3!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F23e9bfa6-8200-411d-b085-2b4a68f4d001_256x256.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m absolutely overwhelmed by the response to <a href="https://lifestorymagic.com/products/life-story-magic-interview">Life Story Magic</a> this morning. Thank you.</p><p>I said I&#8217;d probably close the Founding Customer offer after 10 or so people took me up on it&#8212;but we absolutely blew past that in the first couple of hours.</p><p>Here&#8217;s what&#8217;s next:</p><ul><li><p>I&#8217;ll honor a few more <a href="https://lifestorymagic.com/products/life-story-magic-interview">Founding/Launch Customer offers ($149)</a>, <em>but you need to enter code <strong>LAUNCH25</strong> at checkout</em>. The discount will show up on the next screen, after you apply it.</p></li><li><p>However, I&#8217;m going to have to shut the offer off pretty soon&#8212;definitely later today this weekend&#8212;so that I don&#8217;t completely overextend myself. If the code doesn&#8217;t work as expected, that will be why. </p></li><li><p>Please don&#8217;t share the code; I really want this to be for loyal <em>Understandably</em> readers only!</p></li></ul><p>Important: <em><strong>From here on out, all interviews happen after the holidays.</strong></em></p><p>You can purchase now and give as a gift (let me know in the form after checkout so I can send a digital gift card). But, the actual interview will be scheduled after January 1st, when things calm down.</p><p>I won&#8217;t keep emailing you about this&#8212;but I&#8217;ll include an update in Monday&#8217;s newsletter.</p><p>Again, a giant thank you! This is really validating!</p><p>&#8212;Bill</p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://lifestorymagic.com&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Check out Life Story Magic&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://lifestorymagic.com"><span>Check out Life Story Magic</span></a></p><p>Questions? Just reply to this email. I&#8217;ll answer personally!</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Life story magic!]]></title><description><![CDATA[I've been waiting a long time to share this one.]]></description><link>https://www.understandably.com/p/life-story-magic-a98</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.understandably.com/p/life-story-magic-a98</guid><pubDate>Fri, 05 Dec 2025 12:02:36 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!4xbX!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F374bd7ae-b3a6-4769-b3d2-f1af30923997_1224x808.heic" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>Instead of Free for ALL Friday this week, I have something I&#8217;m very excited to share&#8212;something I&#8217;ve worked on for a long time, and that I&#8217;m proud to release into the world. I hope you&#8217;ll check it out!</em></p><h2>Let&#8217;s start with two sisters</h2><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://lifestorymagic.com/products/life-story-magic-interview" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!4xbX!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F374bd7ae-b3a6-4769-b3d2-f1af30923997_1224x808.heic 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!4xbX!,w_848,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F374bd7ae-b3a6-4769-b3d2-f1af30923997_1224x808.heic 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!4xbX!,w_1272,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F374bd7ae-b3a6-4769-b3d2-f1af30923997_1224x808.heic 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!4xbX!,w_1456,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F374bd7ae-b3a6-4769-b3d2-f1af30923997_1224x808.heic 1456w" sizes="100vw"><img src="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!4xbX!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F374bd7ae-b3a6-4769-b3d2-f1af30923997_1224x808.heic" width="1224" height="808" data-attrs="{&quot;src&quot;:&quot;https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/374bd7ae-b3a6-4769-b3d2-f1af30923997_1224x808.heic&quot;,&quot;srcNoWatermark&quot;:null,&quot;fullscreen&quot;:null,&quot;imageSize&quot;:null,&quot;height&quot;:808,&quot;width&quot;:1224,&quot;resizeWidth&quot;:null,&quot;bytes&quot;:161295,&quot;alt&quot;:null,&quot;title&quot;:null,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;image/heic&quot;,&quot;href&quot;:&quot;https://lifestorymagic.com/products/life-story-magic-interview&quot;,&quot;belowTheFold&quot;:false,&quot;topImage&quot;:true,&quot;internalRedirect&quot;:&quot;https://www.understandably.com/i/175483200?img=https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F374bd7ae-b3a6-4769-b3d2-f1af30923997_1224x808.heic&quot;,&quot;isProcessing&quot;:false,&quot;align&quot;:null,&quot;offset&quot;:false}" class="sizing-normal" alt="" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!4xbX!,w_424,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F374bd7ae-b3a6-4769-b3d2-f1af30923997_1224x808.heic 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!4xbX!,w_848,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F374bd7ae-b3a6-4769-b3d2-f1af30923997_1224x808.heic 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!4xbX!,w_1272,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F374bd7ae-b3a6-4769-b3d2-f1af30923997_1224x808.heic 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!4xbX!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F374bd7ae-b3a6-4769-b3d2-f1af30923997_1224x808.heic 1456w" sizes="100vw" fetchpriority="high"></picture><div class="image-link-expand"><div class="pencraft pc-display-flex pc-gap-8 pc-reset"><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container restack-image"><svg role="img" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 20 20" fill="none" stroke-width="1.5" stroke="var(--color-fg-primary)" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg"><g><title></title><path d="M2.53001 7.81595C3.49179 4.73911 6.43281 2.5 9.91173 2.5C13.1684 2.5 15.9537 4.46214 17.0852 7.23684L17.6179 8.67647M17.6179 8.67647L18.5002 4.26471M17.6179 8.67647L13.6473 6.91176M17.4995 12.1841C16.5378 15.2609 13.5967 17.5 10.1178 17.5C6.86118 17.5 4.07589 15.5379 2.94432 12.7632L2.41165 11.3235M2.41165 11.3235L1.5293 15.7353M2.41165 11.3235L6.38224 13.0882"></path></g></svg></button><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container view-image"><svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 24 24" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" class="lucide lucide-maximize2 lucide-maximize-2"><polyline points="15 3 21 3 21 9"></polyline><polyline points="9 21 3 21 3 15"></polyline><line x1="21" x2="14" y1="3" y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a></figure></div><p>Long ago, two sisters in Rhode Island had a big falling out. They didn&#8217;t talk for years. Eventually they reconciled.</p><p>Later, one of the sisters had friends visiting from Montreal, who brought their teenage daughters.   </p><p>&#8220;Cute girls,&#8221; she thought. &#8220;Same age as my nephew.&#8221;</p><p>So, she took them to her sister&#8217;s house&#8212;and, that&#8217;s how my parents met.   </p><p>Imagine if those sisters (my future grandmother and my future great-aunt) hadn&#8217;t reconciled, and hadn&#8217;t literally brought my Canadian future mom to my American future dad&#8217;s doorstep.</p><p>I might not exist! You wouldn&#8217;t be reading this right now!</p><h3>Got any good stories?</h3><p>I learned most of this story last year, when I started doing a series of interviews with my dad about his life&#8212;his childhood, what he knows about his family and ancestors, his career, his faith, my mom, my siblings, and more.</p><p>It&#8217;s been a great experience. It also reminded me, for about the 12 billionth time, that most of us are walking around with amazing stories to share&#8212;but no time to tell them. </p><p>Or else, sometimes we do tell them, but rarely in a format or a way that makes them easy for others to remember later.</p><p>I wonder whether there are similar stories in your family.</p><h3>Life Story Magic!</h3><p>I&#8217;m sharing this today because I&#8217;m launching something I&#8217;ve wanted to build for years: a simple way to capture our life stories before they&#8217;re lost. </p><p>It&#8217;s called <strong><a href="https://lifestorymagic.com">Life Story Magic</a></strong>. Here&#8217;s how it works:</p><ol><li><p>I will personally interview someone whose story matters to you&#8212;your mom, your dad, your grandmother, a loved one, whoever&#8212;even you, yourself&#8212;via remote video for 60 minutes at a time (or a bit more if the stories are flowing). </p></li><li><p>I&#8217;ll ask the questions that get the stories flowing. (I&#8217;ve spent a professional lifetime figuring out how to ask the right questions). We&#8217;ll have a fun conversation. </p></li><li><p>Within 5 business days afterward, you&#8217;ll get a recording, a short summary, and a full transcript to keep forever.</p></li></ol><p>I&#8217;ve done extensive family history projects for families in the past, but frankly at a price point well above what most people can afford. Now, technology has caught up, and I think this should be available to every family.</p><h3>&#8216;This is that&#8217;</h3><p>Here are the fine details:</p><ul><li><p>You&#8217;re probably wondering about cost. The regular price will eventually be $499 for one interview, with discounts for multi-interview packages. But, I really wanted to start with a bang, and to include a great special offer for my newsletter readers who want to give it a try.</p></li><li><p>So, I&#8217;m offering a <strong><a href="https://lifestorymagic.com/products/life-story-magic-interview">founding customer / newsletter-reader discount: $149 per interview</a></strong>. I&#8217;ll probably have to cap this at around the first 10 customers or so, as I expect them to go fast.</p></li><li><p>Also, I&#8217;ll eventually bring in other interviewers. But for now, I promise to do all of the interviews myself. </p></li></ul><p><em>If you&#8217;ve ever thought that you should sit down and record your parent&#8217;s stories, or your grandparent&#8217;s, or your own&#8212;this is that. Just simpler than you probably imagined.</em></p><h3>Wouldn&#8217;t this make a great gift?</h3><p>Wow, I never thought of that! :) Yes, it would make a great gift! Especially if there might be any holidays coming up &#8230;</p><p><a href="https://lifestorymagic.com/products/life-story-magic-interview">Grab the founding customer rate now</a>, let me know it&#8217;s a gift, and I&#8217;ll send you a nice gift card so that your loved one can schedule the interview whenever works for them.</p><h3>What kinds of stories?</h3><p>Whatever matters to you. Some examples:</p><ul><li><p>How did your parents (or grandparents) meet?</p></li><li><p>What stories did they hear growing up that you&#8217;ve never heard?</p></li><li><p>Who had the biggest influence on their life&#8212;and why?</p></li><li><p>What challenges did they overcome that shaped who they are?</p></li><li><p>What do they want their grandchildren to know about them?</p></li><li><p>What&#8217;s the recipe for that amazing thing they make that everyone loves?</p></li><li><p>What&#8217;s the story they&#8217;ve told before, but they really want to make sure is recorded well for posterity?</p></li></ul><p>A one hour interview captures meaningful stories, with a transcript that usually runs roughly the length of a magazine article. Some families may want to <a href="https://lifestorymagic.com">book multiple interviews</a>&#8212;to go deeper with one person, or to interview several family members.</p><h3>The stories won&#8217;t wait</h3><p>I&#8217;m capping this <a href="https://lifestorymagic.com/products/life-story-magic-interview">founding customer offer</a> at about 10 people. I&#8217;m telling you first because many of you have been here supporting me for years, and I wanted to thank you and make sure you didn&#8217;t miss out.</p><p>The stories won&#8217;t wait. The people who lived them won&#8217;t be here forever&#8212;none of us will. Most of us keep thinking &#8220;someday I should record this &#8230;&#8221;</p><p>Today is Friday. But, it&#8217;s also <em>someday</em>.</p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://lifestorymagic.com&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Check out Life Story Magic&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://lifestorymagic.com"><span>Check out Life Story Magic</span></a></p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://lifestorymagic.com/products/life-story-magic-interview&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Get the $149 Deal&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://lifestorymagic.com/products/life-story-magic-interview"><span>Get the $149 Deal</span></a></p><p>Questions? Just reply to this email. I&#8217;ll answer personally!</p><div><hr></div><h2>7 other things worth knowing </h2><ul><li><p>Amazon is planning to end its partnership with the U.S. Postal Service by the end of 2026 and expand its own nationwide delivery network according to a report by the Washington Post. The e-commerce giant has been the Postal Service&#8217;s largest customer, generating more than $6 billion in annual revenue in 2025, which represents approximately 7.5% of the agency&#8217;s yearly revenue. (<a href="https://finance.yahoo.com/news/amazon-plans-end-usps-partnership-140245509.html">Yahoo Finance</a>)</p></li><li><p>Brian Cole Jr., 30, of Woodbridge, Va., was arrested Thursday morning and charged with planting pipe bombs outside the Democratic and Republican National Committees on the eve of the Jan. 6, 2021, Capitol riot started building the deadly devices in 2019, federal investigators say. The FBI didn&#8217;t provide many details or suggest a motive; a neighbor described him as &#8220;very antisocial. Very.&#8221; (<a href="https://nypost.com/2025/12/04/us-news/fbi-makes-arrest-in-jan-6-pipe-bomb-investigation-after-nearly-5-years/">The New York Post</a>)</p></li><li><p>Say Goodbye to the Billable Hour, Thanks to AI: With AI taking over their grunt work, lawyers and other professionals may have to charge for outcomes rather than time spent. (<a href="https://www.wsj.com/tech/ai/ai-goodbye-to-billable-hours-cba198fe?st=Pt14Yq&amp;reflink=desktopwebshare_permalink">WSJ</a>)</p></li><li><p>The AI boom is heralding a new gold rush in the American west. Once home to gold and prospectors, the Nevada desert is now the site of a new kind of expansion: tech datacenters. (<a href="https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2025/dec/04/nevada-ai-data-centers">The Guardian</a>)</p></li><li><p>Why One Man Is Fighting for Our Right to Control Our Garage Door Openers: If companies can modify internet-connected products and charge subscriptions after people have already purchased them, what does it mean to own anything anymore? (<a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2025/12/04/technology/personaltech/why-one-man-is-fighting-for-our-right-to-control-our-garage-door-openers.html?unlocked_article_code=1.6E8.K8Oi.oPQ1UtoLaDnM&amp;smid=url-share">NYT</a>)</p></li><li><p>Walmart says it sold out of its entire inventory of giant-sized Kraft Mac &amp; Cheese in a 65-inch box the size of a flatscreen TV in in minutes on Black Friday&#8212;advertising them at 12:01 a.m. and running out within an hour. Walmart apparently wouldn&#8217;t say just how many they sold, but they&#8217;d given samples to social media influencers beforehand. (<a href="https://www.usatoday.com/story/money/food/2025/12/03/kraft-65-inch-box-mac-cheese-sold-out/87591009007/?">USA Today</a>)</p></li><li><p>Travelers wore pajamas to airports in protest of a federal government request for them to dress more nicely when they fly. (<a href="https://ca.news.yahoo.com/travelers-wear-pajamas-airports-protest-140353057.html">The Washington Post</a>)</p></li></ul><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://www.understandably.com/p/life-story-magic-a98/comments&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Leave a comment&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://www.understandably.com/p/life-story-magic-a98/comments"><span>Leave a comment</span></a></p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://www.understandably.com/p/life-story-magic-a98?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=email&utm_content=share&action=share&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Share&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://www.understandably.com/p/life-story-magic-a98?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=email&utm_content=share&action=share"><span>Share</span></a></p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://www.understandably.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe now&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://www.understandably.com/subscribe?"><span>Subscribe now</span></a></p><div><hr></div><p>Thanks for reading. See you in the comments&#8212;or maybe at <em><a href="https://lifestorymagic.com">Life Story Magic</a></em>?</p>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>