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Brenda Jackson's avatar

Read this recently, not sure of source…

A boat was docked in a tiny Calabrian fishing village.

A tourist complimented the local fishermen on the quality of their fish and... asked how long it took to catch them.

"Not very long" they answered in unison.

"Why didn't you stay out longer and catch more?"

The fishermen explained that their small catches were sufficient to meet their needs and those of their families.

"But what do you do with the rest of your time?"

"We chat in the piazza with friends, fish a little, play with our children, and enjoy time with our wives. In the evenings, we go into the village to see our friends, have a few drinks, play the guitar, and sing a few songs.

We have a full life."

The tourist interrupted, "I have an MBA from Harvard and I can help you! You should start by fishing longer every day. You can then sell the extra fish you catch. With the extra revenue, you can buy a bigger boat."

"And after that?"

"With the extra money the larger boat will bring, you can buy a second one and a third one and so on until you have an entire fleet of trawlers.

Instead of selling your fish to a middle man, you can then negotiate directly with the processing plants and maybe even open your own plant. You can then leave this little village and move to Milan, London, Los Angeles, or even New York City!!! From there you can direct your huge new enterprise."

"How long would that take?"

"Twenty, perhaps twenty-five years." replied the tourist.

"And after that?"

"Afterwards? Well my friend, that's when it gets really interesting," answered the tourist, laughing. "When your business gets really big, you can start buying and selling stocks and make millions!"

"Millions? Really? And after that?" asked the fishermen.

"After that you'll be able to retire, live in a tiny village near the coast, play with your children, catch a few fish, enjoy time with your wife and spend your evenings drinking and enjoying your friends."

"With all due respect sir, but that's exactly what we are doing now. So what's the point wasting twenty-five years?" asked the Italians.

And the moral of this story is:

Know where you're going in life, you may already be there! Many times in life, money is not everything.

“Live your life before life becomes lifeless”

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Bill Collier's avatar

2/3 of the way through your story, I would have bet good money that the "punchline" was going to be about pushback from parents who can't get off work early and thus couldn't be there by 4pm. I would have lost that bet.

Since the theme revolved around increased workplace flexibility, it would be great to see a quick update about whether you got any gruff from the parents for the 4pm thing. If not, it further supports the premise that workplace flexibility is gaining traction.

As for me, I'm an older (mid 60s) small business owner (14 people + various employees' dogs.) I'm also old-school: Everyone - not just my employees, but literally everyone - should get to work on time or better yet, early and put in a full, productive day's work. I got that hard-headed outlook from growing up the stepson of an even more old-school construction worker and via my time in the military.

I've softened that stance significantly during the last few years ... partly due to seeing the flexibility needed by my own family members who work for me, and partly due to the craziness of Covid and its required stay-home quarantines. My new approach is better for my team while being self-serving for me and my company as we look to hire and retain the best possible people. And, I have to admit it feels good to hear my team members say they appreciate how "family flexible" we are.

We've enjoyed the most stable team with our lowest turnover ever since the start of Covid, and I have to point to our flexibility as the main reason.

Thanks for this article. It inspires me to take it up a notch and publicly proclaim ourselves a flexible workplace in our job postings.

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