Here’s some good advice from Thomas Murphy, who passed away in 2022 at age 96.
Honestly, I feel like his is a name I should have known earlier in life—first because it’s so close to my own, but also because of his career: Murphy started as a television executive in the 1950s — first employee at Capital Cities, in fact — and ultimately built an enormous media juggernaut that acquired ABC.
He served as chairman and CEO of the combined company until 1994, so I guess he was a bit before my time—but he also sat on the board of directors at Berkshire Hathaway.
“I watched him inspire very imperfect humans—myself certainly included,” Buffett said upon Murphy’s death. “Motivated by Tom, some became better parents, others more generous, and some were encouraged to lead in a kinder way.”
Buffett, the so-called Oracle of Omaha, often credited Murphy with giving him some of the best advice he ever got.
That advice is, basically: “Mañana. No rush. Do it tomorrow.”
Not everything, mind you—but if you’re angry, or annoyed, and about to react to something with emotion, wait a day or so.
As Buffett put it in the 2015 book, Getting There, by Gillian Zoe Segal:
“He said, 'Warren, you can always tell someone to go to hell tomorrow.'
It was such an easy way of putting it. You haven't missed the opportunity. Just forget about it for a day. If you feel the same way tomorrow, tell them—but don't spout off in a moment of anger.”
I must admit, there have been a few times in my life when I probably would have been better off following Mr. Murphy’s advice.
Working backward on Buffett’s praise, we can figure that Murphy probably first gave him this advice roughly 50 years ago, when Buffett would have been in his mid-40s, and Murphy might have been around 50.
That means it was maybe 10 or 15 years too late for what Buffett describes as the dumbest mistake he ever made. In fact, I laughed out loud when I read Buffett's words here, because it flies in the face of a famous time that he was unable to “forget about it for a day.”
Back in the early 1960s, you see, Buffett was in a dispute with the chairman of a very old textile company that he’d invested in.
It was not a great business; in fact Buffett had bought a stake in it specifically because it was falling apart. He hoped to wring a bit of value out of it under what he called his “cigar butt” theory of investing.
Basically, he’d find old companies, undervalued and trending downward, and try to wring as much value out of them as he could before they completely died off.
In this case, however, Buffett grew angry with the chairman when he tried to nickel-and-dime him and renege on the terms of a deal. So, Buffett acted angrily and rashly, and started buying more and more stock just so that he could fire the chairman.
Net result, as Buffett wrote in one of his shareholder letters, he suddenly had a huge part of his investment capital tied up in “a terrible business about which I knew very little. ... I became the dog who caught the car.”
That company, drumroll please, was Berkshire Hathaway, and now Buffett owned it.
He wound up using it as a holding company acquiring other businesses, of course, but he didn't give up on the textile industry part of it for decades afterward.
He later claimed that chasing after this dying, unprofitable business, instead of investing in more promising industries, cost his ventures hundreds of millions of dollars.
So, bottom line advice: Stay in control of your emotions. Don't make moves out of anger. Take a deep breath before reacting. Wait until tomorrow.
Mañana!
But if you do insist on acting rashly, at least do it in a way that gives you a good story many years later.
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I like Mr. Murphy’s way of doing things. I also do it but it took me 30-35 years to learn it. Wish I knew about it earlier. Those who are young in age should listen to his advice.
This story brings to mind what I like to remind myself of in those specific situations “ A moment of patience in a moment of anger saves you 100 moments of regret” Sometimes I have to say it to myself over and over again, lol.
I love all the stories that you begin with in your emails, thank you !