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Riley Rawson's avatar

A suggestion: pick-up soccer groups (just show up Saturday or Sunday morning, form spontaneous teams, and play. Another: walking/running clubs. These low intensity but active groups work. Riley Rawson.

Irene Goodman's avatar

Some things don't change. If you want companionship and opportunity, it's a pretty safe bet that you are going to have to walk out of your house. You can't do everything online. It's very easy to just reach for your phone, but try taking a walk. Sit down at a cafe and have a coffee. Talk to people. Go to easily affordable places where you can start a conversation--a museum, a zoo, a library (yes, people still use them occasionally), a coffee place, a college campus, a political rally, a religious institution, a conference, or a supermarket. Talk to people. Be curious. Put yourself out there. Don't have any expectations. But it's only logical that if you want connection--whether it's romantic or job-related or spiritual--that you have a better chance if you physically put yourself where those connections are likely to be.

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