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Sue's avatar

I wanted to have a child earlier, but never found the right guy. So I was in my 40’s when I became a single mom by choice. Better than having a child with the wrong guy just for the sake of having a kid, and then dragging the kid (and myself) through years of custody and visitation disagreements, etc.

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New England Woman's avatar

Lots of food for thought.

My parents had me when they were 30. My Mom in particular became a better and better mother as she got older. More patience, understanding, supportive in all ways, became absolutely wonderful to talk with, showed excellent judgment.

This happened because she evolved and grew as the years went by. I changed too, and hopefully evolved too, but she was the leader in terms of personal growth.

So I’m in favor of older parents. Perspectives I think do change as we mature - if we are lucky. My Mom passed last year at 96. I am still a caregiver to my Dad, who is 98. My sister and I agree that we won the lottery in terms of parents.

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