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Lisa Maniaci's avatar

Unfortunately, I think a lot of dementia is related to genetics. My parents are both very social, involved in their church (the same one they were married in 66 years ago) and the volunteer fire department. They have a group they call their "Family of Friends" that they've been with since before they had kids. The friends who are still with us range in age from 82-94.

I think being social has kept them alive.

As for the dementia though, we've been watching my mother's decline for the last few years and it's heartbreaking. She's not used to being out of control of anything. We're now at the point where she believes conversations have taken place, only to find out they never happened. She called my sister mortified that she made a comment to her hairdresser, and in front of another client. What she thought she said was nothing terrible but she assumed it was misunderstood because they both looked at her weirdly. My sister called to smooth things over and the woman said, not only did the conversation never happen, there was no one else there when my mom left. Things like this are happening much too often.

I would love it if just having a very social life kept this creeping and debilitating illness at bay, but it seems there is a lot more involved. Seeing my dad deal with this new reality is extremely sad too.

Patty McGlasson's avatar

“People who are more isolated than they want to be”

I always feel less than with these studies but as you state - …than they want to be. I like my alone time.

Good newsletter Bill, as always!

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