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Kathleen Besser's avatar

This comment pertains to your question about religion. I used to believe God was Catholic, because that’s what the priests and nuns taught me. Now I believe God is there for everyone and everything- not just those born into the correct ‘club’

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Lisa's avatar

I was raised as a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (Mormon) and would tell anyone my experience as a child and young adult within the church was all positive. Mormonism is a high-demand religion and I lived it whole-heartedly. It was a huge portion of my identity. My heritage is Mormonism with ancestors being a part of it from its outset. I initially attended BYU-Idaho, married in an LDS temple, attended church RELIGIOUSLY, and live in a community in Idaho that is predominantly Mormon. Mormons do community really well—Mormonism was my world.

As an adult in my mid 30s I learned parts of Mormon history/doctrine that were not a part of the narrative I had been taught or rather, that had not been fully disclosed. Long story short, when I gave myself room to think independently and examine how I felt and not just believe what I was told to believe, I decided to step away from membership rather than try to exist in a space of cognitive dissonance.

Biggest take-aways for me have been perspective (now seeing the world outside of Mormonism) and that we don’t know what we don’t know. Mormons have answers/explanations for EVERYTHING—maybe every religion does??

I feel like having Mormonism crumble for me has made me skeptical of religion, but especially organized religion. Community outside of Mormonism has been hard to find, it is probably one of the things I miss most. Well, that and “knowing” I was going to live eternally in heaven. I am just a free spirit floating on the wind.

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